The last few weeks have been full of buzzing activities for me...
What is the change in Hari ?
There has been no change. I remain the same. It is only you who have changed. And I am showing you the 'Changed You'. So If you think, I've changed. Think Again.
I've been like this since time immemorial. There is no way I can change :).
How can something incorrigible as Hari - change ? :) :P
And BTW as a precursor to the Crappier Things I learnt at Onsite.. here goes another list...
You can call this the survival guide in this world.
Point 1:: Don't expect anything from anybody...
Point 2:: Nobody helps you out of sympathy. There is always a personal angle.
Point 3:: Everybody is selfish... Note the accusatory tone.
Point 4:: Your problems are yours. So solve them yourself.
Point 5:: There ARE no friends. Only people who want to use you for some benefits.
Point 6:: Sometimes people are not worth so much trouble. Just Ditch them and walk ahead. You'll notice the spring in your step.
Point 7:: Nobody's worth your self-respect. Don't sacrifice it. DO NOT, EVER, remain (or try to remain)friends/whatever with someone who says or thinks that they are doing you a favor by being their friend/whatever.
Point 8:: Be Selfish. If you want your wishes to be fulfilled, you'd better be.
Point 9:: When you ask questions, ensure that the answers can be only in Binary. Why a 'may-be' when a simple Yes or No can suffice. Saves a lot of headache and heartache.
Point 10:: Have your equations simple. Don't complicate. More the number of (unknown) variables, tougher the equation to solve.
Point 11:: Don't tread on someone else's personal space. And tell them not to do on yours. It could be something as simple as answering your phone call on your behalf.
Point 12:: Have expectations. But keep them simple and small. So that when they are not met, you can keep up with the disappointment. To put it in other words.
If you don't have any expectation from someone, then they don't mean anything to you. Get it ??
Point 13:: When people get along without you, you are as good as dead to them. Why scare them by walking into their lives again ?
Point 14:: When you give advice and people don't follow it. Don't fret. If things went well, don't worry. If they didn't... It was his/her mistake. You did your best. Now get to work.
Point 15:: Never regret what you did. EVER. You did what you had to do. Now get over it and start walking again. If its in your destiny, you will face it again in your life, and as the famous quote goes, "Nobody escapes their past. Nobody escapes Judgement !!!"
Well, that was some gyaan.. :)
Happy Living !!!